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Outside the Junoverse

by Gabrielle on January 15th, 2008

Juno is the first movie that’s sparked my interest in a while. Trailers are funny. Topics are relevant (perhaps too close to home for me on some levels). Characters likable. Reviews are good. My MIL loved it. My co-workers – ditto. Bloggers whose opinion I trust like Jade and Pamela Jeanne give it the thumbs up. I am pretty sure I want to see this film.

Thing is, you’re going to have to wait a while for my review. I just don’t go to the movies.

Every time I think a night at the cinema is a good idea, we have yet another Bad Experience. Whether it’s a kid in front of me jumping on the seat throwing popcorn at Jar Jar or a woman behind me having her own (very vocal) revelation thanks to Michael Moore, I am hard pressed to recall a time when I have actually enjoyed going to the movies.

So that leaves me with HBO, cable, Blockbuster and Netflix to give me my celluloid fix. And that’s fine. Except for when there’s a movie I really want to see. Like this one.

Juno does have its critics. In an article for RHRealityCheck.org, Arthur Shostak regrets that the film didn’t take the opportunity to talk about abortion more frankly and details the inaccuracies portrayed in it. Nevertheless, he says,

The film’s many shortcomings not withstanding, it warrants MUST viewing by all readers of this critique, as it reveals much about what we are up against where mass media treatment is concerned. Indirect in its underlying condemnation of abortion on request, the film is a far more costly blow against abortion rights than anything the anti-abortion crowd could possibly hope for or ever produce - and they are big gainers (at no cost to them) from its sappy popularity.

Ellen Goodman of the Washington Writers Group also wonder s what kind of message Juno is sending:

Here is a cinematic world without complication. Or contraception. By some screenwriter consensus, abortion has become the right-to-choose that’s never chosen….In Juno the abortion clinic looks like a punk-rock tattoo parlor.

Bob Bamman, LCSW writes a thoughtful piece about the flick for Resolve, He wishes that the film more explicitly acknowledged the fictional account of adoption:

As a cinematic experience Juno is funny, heart wrenching, and well acted, but prospective adoptive parents should go in to it with the knowledge that it’s portrayal of adoption practice is largely inaccurate, and should be prepared to have their emotional heart strings, often already frayed by infertility and disappointment, further tugged on.

I need to wait for Juno to slowly creep up to the top of my Netflix queue to add more to this discussion. But if you’ve seen the film and would like to add your two cents, visit the adoption bulletin board on resolve.org where they are hosting an online discussion. You must be a registered user (free) to access the bulletin board. Follow this link to register.

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POSTED IN: Adoption, Choice, living with infertility, motherhood

4 opinions for Outside the Junoverse

  • Melis
    Jan 15, 2008 at 1:43 pm

    I’m so sorry you’ve had such bad times at the movies! I too am an infrequent movie-theater goer, but more due to my thriftiness combined with my busy schedule. Oh if I could scrapbook at the theater…

    I’m very much looking forward to checking out the pimped-out Majestic near my old place in Kansas City - leather recliners, full menu, cocktails, etc. And, during the week tix are the same price as a regular theatre! (They go up to $25 on Fri/Sat!) Anywho, I was going to recommend checking out that super delux theater down by Susquehanna Shoppes. It’s pretty sweet, and, if you hit it mid week/early in the day you should be pretty safe. =) Of course, this is coming from the girl who when she DOES go to the movies is one of the ones with the OMG! outbursts. =)

  • Pamela Jeanne
    Jan 18, 2008 at 12:32 pm

    The cautions offered by RESOLVE and the Washington Post reporter are certainly valid … and worthwhile to refocus on the real world of adoption, family planning and infertility, but I would hope no one in their right mind would go to a comedy to get guidance on such a personal matter as family building, just as I would hope no one sits down to watch the movie Airplane to understand how the airlines and air travel work…

    Thanks for the shout out!

  • Gabrielle
    Jan 18, 2008 at 12:42 pm

    Agreed. At the end of the day, it just looks damn funny. And I honestly can’t wait to see it.

    And as for the shout out, I’m hard-pressed to think of a more thoughtful blogger about living and coming to terms with infertility than you, Pamela Jeanne. I dig your blog and if its cool with you, I’m going to keep spreading the word.

    Sincerely,

    Gab

  • Pamela Jeanne
    Jan 18, 2008 at 1:06 pm

    Thanks, Gab! Glad to have your support and encouragement. My writing/blog objective is to help expand awareness that infertility is a complex and life-changing experience on many levels.

    If I can help even one infertile person feel less alone, or help remove the many misunderstandings about this condition that exist among the fertile world then my infertility experience will have led to some sort of positive legacy…

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